On September 9, 2025, the world lost a true gem, Polly Dean Holliday, who passed away at the age of 88 in her Manhattan home. Born on July 2, 1937, in Jasper, Alabama, Polly’s journey from a small-town Southern girl to a beloved actress left an indelible mark on stage, television, and film.
Polly was best known for her iconic role as Florence Jean “Flo” Castleberry, the sassy, gum-cracking waitress on the 1970s sitcom Alice. Her unforgettable catchphrase, “Kiss my grits!”, became a cultural phenomenon, capturing her character’s spunky spirit and earning her two Golden Globe Awards and three Emmy nominations. She brought Flo to life with such charm and comedic timing that the role led to a spin-off series, Flo, showcasing her ability to carry a show with her vibrant presence.
Beyond Alice, Polly’s career was a testament to her versatility. She shone on the big screen as the ruthless Mrs. Ruby Deagle in Gremlins (1984), earning a Saturn Award for Best Supporting Actress. Her film credits also included memorable roles in All the President’s Men (1976), Mrs. Doubtfire (1993), and The Parent Trap (1998). On television, she delighted audiences as Rose Nylund’s sister Lily on The Golden Girls and as Jill Taylor’s mother, Lillian, on Home Improvement.
Polly’s roots in theater were deep and distinguished. After studying piano at Alabama College for Women (now the University of Montevallo) and performing in productions like Medea and The Lady’s Not for Burning, she honed her craft at Florida State University and the Asolo Repertory Company in Sarasota, Florida. Her decade-long tenure with Asolo saw her tackle classic and contemporary works, from Shakespeare to Shaw. On Broadway, she earned a Tony nomination for her powerful performance as Big Mama in the 1990 revival of Cat on a Hot Tin Roof and starred in Arsenic and Old Lace.
Despite her fame, Polly remained a private and grounded individual. She never married and lived a life dedicated to her craft and community, notably supporting the choral society and chamber series at Grace Church in Greenwich Village. Her Southern warmth and quiet grace off-screen contrasted beautifully with the bold, brassy characters she brought to life.
As the last surviving member of the original Alice cast, Polly’s passing closes a chapter on a beloved era of television. Yet, her legacy lives on through the laughter she sparked, the characters she embodied, and the inspiration she provided to actors and fans alike.
Rest in peace, Polly Dean Holliday. Your grits will forever be kissed with love and admiration.