As we mark the fifth anniversary of his passing on this day, September 3, 2025, I find myself reflecting on the profound impact one man can have on a community, a profession, and those closest to him. Lieutenant Marc David Weiss, a dedicated firefighter with the Bonita Springs Fire Control and Rescue District, left us far too soon on September 1, 2020, after a valiant two-year battle with pancreatic cancer. At just 49 years old, Marc’s life was a testament to unwavering commitment, infectious humor, and boundless passion for service. Born in 1971, he embodied the spirit of a true first responder—tough, unrelenting, and always ready with a quick joke or a helping hand.
Marc’s journey in the fire service began in 2001 when he joined the Bonita Springs Fire Control and Rescue District. Over nearly two decades, he rose through the ranks to become a lieutenant, serving with distinction at Station 21 in downtown Bonita Springs for a decade. His passion for firefighting was evident in everything he did; he was a “firefighter’s firefighter,” dedicated to training and learning techniques that could save lives. Marc traveled to conventions and expos as a teacher and instructor, forging friendships across the profession and inspiring countless colleagues with his expertise and enthusiasm. Even in the face of illness, which forced him to step away from active duty about a year before his passing, his commitment never wavered.
But Marc was more than his uniform. Standing at 5 feet 1 inch, he earned the affectionate nickname “Hebrew Hammer”—a moniker that captured his larger-than-life personality. He was a master prankster, often leaving his fellow firefighters in stitches with his antics. As one colleague recounted during his memorial, “Any of you guys that were witness, involved or the brunt of one of Marc’s pranks, please raise your hand.” Dozens did, a fitting tribute to his playful side. Others remembered him as the “Hebrew Heckler,” “Hebrew with a Heart,” and ultimately, the “Hebrew Hero.” Marc could light up any room, blending toughness with genuine care for those around him. He was hardworking, funny, and always dependable, making a lasting impression on everyone he met.
At the heart of Marc’s world was his family. He was a loving husband to his wife, Andrea Weiss, whose grace and strength shone through even in grief. In keeping with Jewish customs, burial typically occurs within a day, but Andrea graciously allowed a 24-hour delay so the fire district could honor Marc with a full memorial service—a gesture that spoke volumes about her understanding of his deep bond with his firefighting family. Marc was also a devoted father to his two daughters, whom he adored beyond measure. Colleagues recalled how he beamed with pride when speaking of them, sharing stories of their lives and achievements. “You both meant the world to him,” one friend shared during the service, a sentiment that underscored the profound love he held for his girls. Though details of his extended family remain private, it’s clear that Marc’s legacy lives on through those he cherished most, supported by community efforts like fundraisers that directed proceeds to aid his children during their time of need.
The outpouring of love for Marc was palpable at his memorial service on September 3, 2020, held at Hertz Arena in Estero. Hundreds of first responders from across Florida gathered to pay their respects, representing more than a dozen departments. Eight speakers shared heartfelt stories, blending laughter and tears in a celebration of his life. The ceremony concluded with the solemn tradition of Signal 5555—the ringing of a bell five times in four sets, symbolizing the end of a firefighter’s watch. As the final strike echoed, rain began to fall on the arena roof, as if the heavens themselves were joining in the tribute.
Five years later, Marc’s memory endures. The Bonita Springs Fire Control and Rescue District continues to honor him annually, sharing posts that highlight his passion and contributions. Initiatives like the 9/11 stair climb fundraiser, organized in his name, keep his spirit alive while supporting his family. Marc Weiss wasn’t just a lieutenant; he was a mentor, a friend, a hero who touched lives far beyond the firehouse. In a world that often feels chaotic, his story reminds us of the quiet strength found in service, humor, and love.
Rest in peace, Lieutenant Marc Weiss—gone but never forgotten. Your legacy burns bright in the hearts of your family, your brothers and sisters in the fire service, and the community you protected so fiercely.
S. Vincent Anthony September 3, 2025